Compassion in action: Christian Ofume’s experience as a palliative care volunteer

Christian Ofume holds one of the most challenging and rewarding volunteer positions within Nova Scotia Health.

The 21-year-old university student began his journey with the health authority nearly two years ago when he started volunteering with the Cancer Care Program at the Victoria General (VG) site of the QEII and the Emergency Department at Dartmouth General Hospital (DGH).

Wanting to make a meaningful impact within his community, Christian then took that valuable experience and transitioned into a role as a Grief Resource Support Volunteer within the Palliative and Cancer Care units at the VG.

It’s in this role that he has gained profound insight into life, loss, and the human experience.

On the palliative care unit, Christian plays a crucial role, assisting the clinical social worker who provides support to families of individuals who have passed away while receiving palliative care. This provides essential connections for those seeking grief resources. The work relies heavily on collaboration and communication between Christian and the clinical social workers, allowing them to connect individuals and families with appropriate resources tailored to their individual needs.

Christian also mentors new volunteers on the palliative care unit, emphasizing that mentoring extends beyond teaching; it is an opportunity for collective learning. “Mentoring allows me to learn from other volunteers and share insights that can help support a positive transition for my mentees into this role,” he explains.

While Christian’s primary focus is working in partnership with the clinical social work team to connect families with grief support, he recognizes the uniqueness of each person’s experience with loss and grief. Many individuals face this heartbreaking journey without a support network. When volunteers are invited in to support someone who has experienced a loss, they can offer gentle companionship and a caring presence to those who may not have others to lean on during such a difficult time.

 “I have learned a great deal about the diverse experiences and circumstances people encounter during the grieving process,” Christian says, noting that his time with the palliative care team has not only deepened his understanding of how individuals navigate grief but also highlighted the complex emotions tied to losing a loved one. 

Despite the heaviness of the experiences patients and families share with teams on palliative care units, Christian says “being a part of the palliative care volunteer community allows me to continuously learn about life, and this helps further my ability to live a life that feels meaningful to me.” 

As he looks back on his time with the team, Christian encourages others to consider the volunteer opportunities available through Nova Scotia Health Volunteer Services. “I hope my contributions have added to the compassionate care provided by staff, clinicians and volunteers to those receiving palliative care.”

For Christian, giving to others has brought immeasurable rewards. “Being able to listen, support and learn from patients and families is the most fulfilling aspect of my role,” he says. The experiences and lessons he has gathered will stay with him for a lifetime, shaping both how he supports others and how he perceives his own life’s journey.

Photo of Christian Ofume.